January 1st was the agreed upon day for taking down the holiday decorations. The date varies year by year. Hubs would have been happy to get everything put away sooner, but I told him that I wanted to still look at the tree on New Year’s Eve. One month ago I bemoaned the addition of large, colored lights on the tree. Lately, many a night was spent in enjoyment gazing at the pretty blue ones especially.
We all slept in, per the usual routine this past week, and especially since some of us went to bed at 2:00 a.m. Guess what? One night last week I went to bed at 3:00 a.m.
I learned something eye-opening on the first day of this year, and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. Many times this past year I've noticed how much the boys are growing taller…voices changing…feet getting bigger than mine….math homework I can't understand, and so on.
All these growth changes were expressed in terms of a loss--a loss of little boys and how things used to be. What I learned on January 1st is a gain, a positive spin on these children getting bigger and bigger and I thought about it all day.
Since January 1st was on a Saturday, we knew we wanted to get all the chores done that day so we'd have Sunday with no house cleaning--we'd spend the last day of vacay doing whatever we wanted, like the last day of vacay should be spent. So, the boys knew that once we were all up, the chores would begin. Being bigger means they truly helped Hubs and I take down and put away every light bulb, wreath, ornament and garland in record time.
Middle son helped Hubs wind up outdoor lights and put them in the plastic bin, while Youngest and Oldest completely unadorned and dismantled our “back porch” tree while I started on the living room tree. Then Middle son joined me and helped wrap up every ornament in tissue paper and put it back in the bin. Next, Oldest helped unscrew the bolts from the tree stand, and Hubs lifted out the tree and took it outside to the truck for its trip back to Home Depot (and Hubs is Vacuum Man so no sooner had that fir left the house then the needles were sucked away). Christmas was put away, inside and out, in less than and hour and a half.
And the part that hard me mulling all day about these growing boys? They carried all 10 or so boxes and bins of Christmas stuff to the upstairs hallway and lined them up by the ladder going into the attic. Hubs went into the attic and the two older boys lifted every box over their heads, from the attic stairs, and up to Hubs in the attic above. They have muscles now. Afterward I was amazed how they made that chore look so easy.
And then I stayed in my pajamas all day until dinner time, when I took a shower and then changed into my vacation uniform again, which was one of many fleece pajama bottoms, soft t-shirt, fuzzy socks and no bra. Wonderful day. Wonderful 10 days.
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I'm going to try to focus on the positives of my kids outgrowing and outsmarting me instead of missing the little ones they've been. I'm the little on in the family now. It is a marvel how they grow and change.
I still have my tree up, mostly because I like the lights and I haven't managed to rally the troops like you for the dismantling. It's artificial, and I often wish I had a closet big enough to just roll in into, because I do not enjoy the take up or put away process, just the end result.
I'm still fighting the cold that got me before Christmas and I'm really tired, so that's my excuse for the tree - maybe this weekend we'll have a family project.
I'm with you on the vacation uniform. Glad you had a nice break. Hope you have a good new year too.
Yes. There is great loss when your babies turn into budding adults, but there are great benefits and joys, too.
That sounds delightful. Our boys are a big help, but now the novelty is gone, so some nagging is involved.
Happy 2011 to you and the Full Moon Family!
Sounds good. Can they hoist a vacuum cleaner? Change a tire? Oh, the things I dream of.
oh sounds lovely...i am sure that day is coming...it will be nice! we as well dismantled on the 1st...i was ready earlier, but my brother was visiting and said no way...it is a tradition to take it down on new years day...(well at least while we were growing up).
loved that you had days in jammies...we did as well...and i kinda want to continue that trend while i teach...giggle :)
I think I'll start building up my boys' muscles now... ;)
But, I really will miss my baby. And then I will put him to work!
I have yet to begin stowing away all the decorations. Jimmy wants me to leave them up for another couple of months. Sigh...I can't wait until Jude is big enough to actually be a help. Not far away, I fear.
glad you are reaping the benefits of your growing boys.
Oh,yes. Much fun to have them help. Your day sounds perfect. Always a fresh feeling when Christmas gets packed away.
You always make me feel so much better, and quite frankly look forward to, the days when my sons are taller than me.
Thank you, my dear friend, for that.
I'm off to take Advil for my back. Had to haul that damn tree to the attic myself :-)
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