As I mentioned this past spring my husband loves working in the yard. But not so much that he won’t share in the tasks. Tradition has developed that when our sons are in 5th grade they are taught how to mow the lawn. And then in 6th grade you get taught how to edge the lawn. When I say "you get taught" I mean that the Hubs provides the lessons because I have never mowed a lawn in my life. The two oldest boys are now in 8th and 6th grade so now we have two lawn-mowing yard boys.
Hubs says he really enjoys the yard work but teaching the boys to do the lawn mowing frees him up for flowers and projects. He says he would have taught our daughters the same chore if we had girls. And we don't have tall or beefy boys--in 5th grade they are 4'8" or less. My now 8th grader is still under 5 feet.
In his summer before 6th grade we suggested to my oldest son that since he had many months experience in mowing our front and back lawn and since he would love to have money for new video games, that he should go door-to-door and talk to the neighbors about his providing lawn services for them. Our neighbors within “walking-with-the-lawnmower distance” consist of a variety of ages and include older professionals with no kids at home. At the time, we lived in the neighborhood for 18 months and didn’t know many of the neighbors. My husband helped him make up some large sized business cards and I set him up with a clipboard and paper. He put on a Polo shirt and went door to door and I stood back a yard or two inconspicuously as he talked to the neighbors at their door. He probably only talked to less than 10 neighbors and proceeded to gain two customers. One is a couple about age 50 who are busy professionals, and the other is a single lady also about age 50.
He “mows and blows” at one visit and then edges at alternates visits. He has finished his third summer since then and still has these same two customers. It is pretty tough juggling school (gets home at 5:00 p.m. off school bus), sports and lawn work (and responsibilities at home!) and frankly sometimes we are compelled to remind him how to manage his time with his customers’ expectations.
One morning a few months ago I was in the yard and another neighbor approached me asking about the boys. She had a college son home for the summer but would need yard help starting in August. Our oldest son is pretty much at his limit and what has worked out is oldest son and middle son work on this yard together two times a month. Sometimes the oldest son will ask the youngest son (3rd grade) to help blow off a driveway or pick up pine cones—and pays him a few dollars. Around here the grass needs cutting through October and then starts again in April.
So the two oldest boys have both been making money since we pay $10 to mow our front and back lawn (that’s less than the rate on the street but it’s the family rate!), which has been the middle son’s “job” for over a year now .
It's a fairly common event that when the Hubs and I have to run somewhere and need cash we ask if we can take a loan from the “Bank of the Boys”.
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My 10yo is actually really looking forward to dad teaching him to mow the lawn. I think dad is looking forward to passing the job on, as well.
good for your boys! i think that is such a really good and important experience in young adulthood.
I love it!! What a great lesson for all your kids.
I know my Hubs is counting the days until he can hand over the keys to the boys.
And yes, I have been known to pull a buck or two out of Oldest's velcro wallet. His own fault for having me keep it in my purse ;-).
So excellent. You're raising such industrious boys. But, umm, think they might give me the family rate?
That is awesome :) I grew up with 2 sisters, and we were lawn mowing girls. I'm thankful that I no longer have to do it!
I love this! I can hardly wait for the day when my grandsons can mow my grass, but also for them to be of the mindset to take on the responsibilities involved. (Though at 4 and 6, I still have a long wait!) I wish I could hire your boys - there's no one here in our neighborhood as all are too young yet, and the professionals charge $60-$75, which is way out of our budget! I'm with you on not mowing the lawn, though I will mow a walking patch for Oliver, our little chihuahua, to walk on to do his business, with the walking mower (I've never learned how to do the riding mower-on purpose). And at our age, neither of us wants to mow it, especially in our Georgia heat, so we're often the only ones in the hood with too tall grass. But I have the best flower bed in the neighborhood, so that has to count for something!
Your hubby has the right idea to set the boys on this path. It seems to me that too many parents are skipping this step in the growth of their kids these days.
That sort of self reliance and independence is great to instill in young kids! My hubby let's my 8 year old do a number of repairs around the house (supervised) and I think it's great!
How wonderful! And they help each other, too. So much good stuff going on there!
I do a lot of the mowing/trimming around here, so I'm very happy to have my oldest to bear some of the burden.
And he always has to lend me cash.
Polo shirt nice touch.
I love mowing the lawn!!!
Growing up, we had an acre lot... and all the kids had to take a section and mow....that was my favorite chore ever.
I think it's good for the kids and great on the parents! I love it when responsiblity can shift to the kids and give us a litte break..plus they earn money! I had to shovel horse manure in our corrals to earn 5 bucks an hour..but it was worth it!
...good lesson! Cute pics!
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